Tarotscope for this lovely week – Have Faith

This week I am using the Magical Mermaids and Dolphins deck from Doreen Virtue. I have drawn one card to help us connect to our inner voice within this week.

Have Faith – Your prayers are manifesting. Remain positive, and follow your guidance.

 

“Have Faith” – much easier said then done. If this card is coming up, you may have been feeling like you are losing your faith, unsure about your direction, or simply tired of feeling like your prayers are not being heard. Why isn’t anyone listening to me? Anyone out there? Hellooo?

You may be feeling like you have worked hard without seeing any real results. I’m reminded of a movie I saw a long while ago. I can’t recall the name of it, but remember the movie itself quite well. A family was driving in a car, on a dark, foggy and mostly abandoned road, every once in a while they would stop, but the road would continue to look the same, even after hours and hours of driving, bringing them to realize that they have been on the same road the entire trip and cannot seem to get off of it. The movie ends with a big reveal. They, the entire family in the car, were driving on that road earlier, had an accident and all died, without being aware of it. They were dead the entire movie as they wandered aimlessly on this road for what seemed like an eternity. Morbid much? Yes, I know. However, it made me reconnect with that feeling when you are trying so hard to get somewhere, but you just feel like you can’t figure out what you are doing, and the more you try, the more you end up losing direction.

Perhaps you have been working towards a specific goal, but seem to not be able to see “the light at the end of the tunnel”, or at the end of the road :). Perhaps you are trying hard to listen to your inner guidance, but cannot seem to hear it due to all the noise coming from the mind.

I know this is not the most pleasant place to be emotionally. I’ve been there, you’ve been there and I’m sure we will be there and back, again.

There and back again, a hobbit’s tale…   I kid! I kid!

This card comes to you as a message from Above that even though your life may not be turning out exactly as you thought it would right now, that does not mean that you are not on the right path. Know that life has a way of working itself out, just not always in the way that you think it may or should. Now is the time to give yourself mental and emotional space away from the issue/situation you have been focusing on. Now is the time to have faith. When you are caught up in a whirlpool of emotions, it is hard to just tell yourself to stop.  It’s time for a break literately. Time to create a different routine, one that takes you away from those draining feelings.

In order to reconnect with your sense of faith, you need to separate from the worry/anxiety/doubt or other draining energy that you may be feeling. What has worked wonderfully well for me is creating a great bed time routine. One in which I ground myself, I allow me to simply be and through that expel the emotional garbage I may have picked up or created in the day. I believe that clearing out this energy at the end of the day helps you to begin your day tomorrow a bit more lighter. Of course, as you go through the next day, your worries may come up again, but by clearing it out every evening, allowing yourself a relaxing and restful night, you create a better foundation for your inner self to be able to deal with all the difficulties on your path.

Action Steps:

No matter what you have been thinking through the day today, know that when you come home you are going to begin your routine of relaxing. I know that at times it may feel difficult to be able to set aside time for yourself, but by doing so, you will break your cycle of feeling disconnected from yourself. Set aside one hour of time just for you before you go to sleep. Lay out your favorite sleeping clothes on the bed. Take a warm and soothing shower, and as you do, become aware of how wonderful and healing the water feels on your body. See it cleansing not only your body, but your spirit as well. See it taking away the days burden.

After dressing in your favorite jammies, find your scared space in your home where you can relax. If you don’t have your sacred space figured out in your home, then it’s time to create one. It may just be a small corner somewhere in your bedroom with a chair that simply beckons to you, a space in your living room where you always tends to sit.

Sit in your sacred space alone and simply breathe. Feel your own breath, become aware of the beauty of life that is going in and out of your lungs. Breathe deep and slow. Simply, allow yourself to be. As you begin to breathe better, your own inner guidance will have more space to speak to you, it will seep through the cracks of the noisy mind bit by bit. Do not be disappointed if you catch yourself thinking all sorts of thoughts. This is all a part of you, and that is okay. Become the observed. Listen to the thoughts coming to you.

When I begin to do this, for the first few weeks, I had a hard time sitting alone! I kept wanting to get on the computer, go to the fridge,wake up my snoring, wake up my snoring husband, skip the practice all together…

However, as I remained determined, I began to feel a difference. Somewhere throughout my day, I felt a longing to get to my practice, in my sacred space. To sit, relaxed and just let myself be. With more time, I began to hear my own inner voice more clearly. I slowly developed a better inner knowing of my life, my current path, of the “why” a certain something was happening. I began to feel a certain peace, one that can only come from within. Then came along Faith. A deeper inner knowing that all will be well, no matter what turns my life will take. I could not explain how I knew, but I just did.

Having faith is a process, it is a form of school that needs to be attended, from within. It is also something that always needs to be practiced. The more you practice the better you will become at it.  No matter how the day has unfolded for you, give yourself the gift of a restful evening!

So, here’s to a good night for you!!!

 

I’m a pessimist—how do I develop a new way of thinking?

Q: It seems like there’s too much pain and suffering due to evildoing of bad people, catastrophe, economic crisis and so forth looming and hovering around our hemisphere…or am I just getting too old? Is there another way to look at this?

You know very well that there’s another way to look at it, so your real question, I think, is how to adopt another way. You can’t talk yourself into seeing sunshine on a rainy day. If you try, you are deluding yourself. Many people, thinking of themselves as realists, feel the same about good and evil. They don’t want to take their eyes off the negative aspects of life because realism demands that we take the bitter with the sweet.

Yet who is to say the bitter is more real than the sweet? If your vision of life contains love and peace, if you yourself have renounced violence, if you set yourself on the spiritual path, these things don’t mean you aren’t a realist. They mean you aim for a higher reality. I don’t mean God, although I am not excluding religion. We are talking about hidden potential. Human nature is divided. It contains both darkness and light. You can choose to accept the darkness and lament it, or you can choose to expand the light until the darkness no longer dominates.

There is no getting around this choice, which is highly personal. I know millions of people are alienated and disenchanted. They sit passively watching the latest reports of violence, catastrophes, corruption and misdeeds float by on the evening news. But the adage is true: One candle is enough to cause the darkness to go away. Once you choose to raise your own awareness, you will have done the most you can to defeat the dark side of human nature, and to discover a higher reality can actually be found and lived.

Source:http://www.oprah.com/spirit/A-New-Way-of-Thinking-Ask-Deepak

Ask Deepak: How to Heal Pain from Your Past

Q: Can you help me understand how to best release those things that are stored in the body? I understand that stillness and detaching help to avoid adding to those emotions and stored feelings. Is it also the best way to release that which has already been deeply rooted within and can eventually cause physical distress? I often experience a situation that opens an old feeling or wound. After I am able to identify the feeling and its source, I choose to replace it with a positive feeling; nevertheless, it is often painful. Example—I recently experienced bursitis in my shoulder. A current event in my life opened an old pattern of response. Once I realized it, I decided to see the anger flow out and compassion replace it. I don’t want to be angry with myself or anyone. I can feel this process working and changing me. Is this the best way? It often feels labor intensive.

— Margaret M., St. Louis, Missouri

 

Dear Margaret,
I think you have hit upon the right way to approach old stresses stored in the tissues, so let’s clarify some of the finer points. Stored emotions, energies, old memories, past traumas, etc. are a huge obstacle. They come in different guises and many intensities. Some are easy to get at and move quickly. Others move slowly and take time and patience. There is no way to determine the flow in advance. With any specific kind of negativity, you are where you are. In other words, whatever comes up for you is still there. You must take it a day at a time.

The fact that releasing old hurts takes time discourages many people. They would like the equivalent of a spiritual aspirin that will make the pain go away in 10 minutes. Such a panacea doesn’t exist, even though you will meet promises of quick relief from many quarters. In the Indian tradition of Ayurveda, which concerns every aspect of the mind and body as one connected system, a basic distinction is made. Every person is born with a certain personal nature that is balanced and works naturally; this is known as the Prakriti, the Sanskrit word for nature. But through wrong choices, bad lifestyle habits, disease, accident, stress and other pressures, your Prakriti enters a state of imbalance. The present state of the mind and body is known as Vikriti.

What you want to do, in bringing yourself back to a natural state, is to heal the imbalances in your Vikriti. (For more details, please see my book, Perfect Health, which outlines the whole subject.) Almost any measure you can take to improve your present situation contributes to overall healing. I am not advising that you obsess, only that you remain realistic. Look at your diet and exercise regimen; honestly examine the state of your workplace, close relationships and stress levels. Become more aware through meditation. Delve deeply into past wounds and learn to heal them. That, in a nutshell, is what you need to do. It’s not meant to be a burden or a crash program. Healing is about getting back into balance, using every means at our disposal. In the end, it’s the best and most fulfilling way to live.

Love,
Deepak

 

Source:

http://www.oprah.com/spirit/How-to-Heal-the-Past-Ask-Deepak

Law of Attraction – Take Control of Your Life

Introduction to The Law Of Attraction: Many of you have probably heard of the Law of Attraction, The Secret, visualization, or some of the other popular manifestations of this technique, but most likely do not fully know what it is. Basically if you spend some time each day visualizing (yes, imagining) YOUR idea, exactly what you have decided what you want. And you do this on a daily basis. And believe 100% that by doing such things, that ideal will manifest itself in your life. And if you expect to see results regardless of how improbable such results may be.. You WILL see results. You are in complete control of your life/destiny/future, you just haven’t grabbed the reigns yet. If you like what you’re hearing and want to grab them, keep on reading.

Basics: Manifesting your ideal is not as hard as it sounds. If you meditate daily, you are already half way there in fact. But meditation is only one of many many ways for you to visualize what you want. I’m getting to far ahead of myself already, so here are the basics:

1. Decide what you want. This is by far the hardest part of the whole process, believe it or not. When you actually start analyzing everything, you’ll probably realize that you didn’t even want what you thought you wanted that badly. You need to figure out what you want more than anything else, no matter how impossible the goal may sound right now. Millionaire? Sure. Billionaire? Even better. Or maybe you just want to get a girl/boyfriend or want to lose weight. Anything you want. Decide on three things to start off with. One small goal, one medium goal, and one crazy goal.

2. Choose a method by which you feel most confident in your ability to visualize or imagine your ideal— your life when everything that you want has come to you. Some people take walks, some sit in the dark, and some meditate in parks. Whatever the way, it needs to be relaxing and as quiet as possible. Make sure you’re doing something where you won’t be disturbed for at least 30 minutes, if not an hour. Be comfortable, but don’t lay down or you might find more sleep coming into your life instead of your ideal.

3. Create your fantasy by just letting your mind wander for the first few times. For example, let’s say the goal is to lose weight. Imagine looking at yourself in the mirror and looking amazing. You have lost XXX lbs and are extremely happy with yourself. Then you walk outside of your house and someone walks by and comments on how thin you look. So, to reiterate, you are imagining the time when your goal has been completed, NOT how you are going to get there. Your responsibility is to have the will, not the way. The universe will figure out the method for you. Anyways, keep building the fantasy until you have a series of events that you can visualize happening everyday. Repetition is key. Do the same for your other goals as well. The fantasy doesn’t have to be split up into goal sections either, in fact, combining goals in one fantasy is encouraged. For example, if your three goals are losing weight, finding a job and getting a new BMW, visualize your very thin self driving to your new job in your new BMW. If you are having trouble visualizing/using your imagination, try clearing your head first and not thinking of anything for 1 minute.

4. Repeat. Visualize this fantasy everyday for at least 30 minutes to an hour, or more if you feel so inclined. Follow the same storyline again and again. The whole point of this is ingraining your ideal into your subconscious, which is the way in which you communicate with the Universal Mind. Your conscious mind creates the ideal, then imprints it onto the subconscious, which relays the goal to Universal Mind and puts it to work at attaining the goal. Also, put as much emotion into your visualization as possible. When something that would give you tremendous joy occurs in your fantasy, smile and feel that happiness. If it’s your ideal life, you should be smiling for a good amount of the time you’re visualizing, right?

5. Expect signs and results. If you come across something that could be an opportunity to achieve your goal, seize it. For example, if you are a guy visualizing yourself on a date with a beautiful girl and you run into an old friend who got hot over the years, ASK HER OUT. Or if you see a poster for a speed dating event, it is NOT just coincidence. If you are visualizing well and consistently, you should be coming across an unusual, if not insane amount of serendipitous events, happenstance type things. Realize that they occurred because of your visualization and that you are getting closer to your ideal. But you will never get there unless you act upon serendipity, upon opportunity, so be assertive! Even take risks, just know that it will turn out okay. BE OPTIMISTIC! You’re ideal is closer than ever and closing in.

Source: http://www.highexistence.com/law-of-attraction/

7 universal laws

There are many universal laws and some claim there are 7 such laws.

Are there 7 universal laws governing the universe? Some also call these the 7 laws of attraction.

No-one knows for sure how many universal laws there, but below is an extract from The Kybalion and Wikipedia covering 7 of them.

Principle of Mentalism

The Principle of Mentalism embodies the truth that “All is Mind.” The Universe is Mental.” — The Kybalion.

This first law out of the 7 universal laws explains that THE ALL (which is all that is apparent to our material senses – matter, energy) is spirit which in itself is thought of as a universal mind.

Principle of Correspondence
The Principle of Correspondence embodies the idea that there is always a correspondence between the laws of phenomena of the various “planes” of being and life. As above, so below; as below, so above. This principle states that there is a harmony, agreement and correspondence between these planes, delineated as

The Great Physical Plane The Great Mental Plane The Great Spiritual Plane

Principle of Vibration
The Principle of Vibration embodies the idea that motion is manifest in everything in the Universe, that nothing rests, and everything moves, vibrates, and circles. This principle explains that the differences between different manifestations of Matter, Energy, Mind, and even Spirit, are the result of only different “vibrations”. The higher a person is on the scale, the higher the rate of vibration will be. Here, The All is purported to be at an infinite level of vibration, almost to the point of being at rest. There are said to be millions upon millions of varying degrees between the highest level, The All, and the objects of the lowest vibration.

Mental Transmutation is described as the practical application of this principle. To change one’s mental state is to change vibration. One may do this by an effort of Will, by means of deliberately “fixing the attention” upon a more desirable state.

Principle of Polarity
The Principle of Polarity is the 4th law of the 7 universal laws and it embodies the idea that everything is dual, everything has two poles, and everything has its opposite. All manifested things have two sides, two aspects, or two poles. Everything “is” and “isn’t” at the same time, all truths are but half truths and every truth is half false, there are two sides to everything, opposites are identical in nature, yet different in degree, extremes meet, and all paradoxes may be reconciled.

Principle of Rhythm
The Principle of Rhythm is the 5th law of the 7 universal laws and it embodies the idea that in everything there is manifested a measured motion, a to and fro, a flow and inflow, a swing backward and forward, a pendulum-like movement.This principle explains that there is rhythm between every pair of opposites, or poles, and is closely related to the Principle of Polarity. It can be seen that this Principle enables transition from one pole to the other, and not necessarily poles of extreme opposites.

Principle of Cause and Effect
The Principle of Cause and Effect is the 6th law of the 7 universal laws and it explains that there is a cause for every effect, and an effect for every cause. It also states that there is no such thing as chance, that chance is merely a term indicating extant causes not recognized or perceived.The Principle is clarified in the chapter Causation.

Principle of Gender
This last law out of the 7 universal laws embodies the idea that gender is manifested in everything.Gender is manifested as the Masculine and Feminine principles, and manifests itself on all planes.

Mental Gender is described as a Hermetic concept which relates to the masculine and feminine principles. It does not refer to the physical gender of someone, nor does it suggest that someone of a certain physical gender necessarily has the same mental gender. Ideally, one wants to have a balanced mental gender.

The concept put forth in The Kybalion states that gender exists on all planes of existence (Physical, Mental, and Spiritual), and represents different aspects on different planes. It is also stated that everything and everyone contains these two elements or principles.

The Masculine principle is always in the direction of giving out or expressing, and contents itself with the “Will” in its varied phases.

The Feminine principle is always in the direction of receiving impressions, and has a much more varied field of operation than the Masculine. The Feminine conducts the work of generating new thoughts, concepts, and ideas, including the work of the imagination.

It is said that there must be a balance in these two forces. Without the Feminine, the Masculine is apt to act without restraint, order, or reason, resulting in chaos. The Feminine alone, on the other hand, is apt to constantly reflect and fail to actually do anything, resulting in stagnation. With both the Masculine and Feminine working in conjunction, there is thoughtful action that breeds success, which point out that both the Feminine and the Masculine fulfill each other.

Source:http://www.one-mind-one-energy.com/7-universal-laws.html

3 Steps To Living a Miraculous Life

You may have read the title of this article and thought, “Man, that sounds groovy—but it’s nothing but a pipe dream.” Many of us long for a life of happiness, balance and peace, but we don’t believe we can have it. But the great paradox is that our lack of faith in love and miracles is what blocks us from receiving love and miracles. Many of us have more faith in fear than we do in love and miracles. If we want to live a miraculous life, we must raise the volume on the loving voice within us and turn down the volume on our fear.

1. Choose Love Over Fear

The first step in choosing love over fear is to understand your fear. As a student of A Course in Miracles I learned to become the witness to my fear-based thoughts. Each time I felt fear set in, I’d take a deep breath, step outside of my thoughts and actions, and witness my behavior. By witnessing my fears I was able to see how delusional they actually were. For instance, early in my career I ran a public relations business. With every new client came a new opportunity to negotiate my monthly retainer. I hated negotiating. It made me feel anxious and jittery, and I’d lose my sense of calm. When I acknowledged my fears around negotiating for more money, I realized it was related to a belief I’d picked up that women shouldn’t ask for more. This was an outside projection the world had created, and I’d chosen to believe it. But when I got honest about my fear, I was able to see how this “lack” mentality had become a fear-based pattern in my mind. When you choose to perceive love over fear, life begins to flow.

2. Be Willing To Let Go of Fear 

Once you’ve gained clarity about your fears, the next step is willingness. A Course in Miracles says that the slightest willingness is all you need to receive the guidance to change. When we become open to let go of our fear, we open our heart, mind and energy to be guided to a new perspective. Willingness raises your consciousness of new possibilities and ignites what I call your ~ing (your inner guide). Your ~ing is the voice of love, your inspiration and your intuition. All you need is a little willingness to get your ~ing on and receive guidance to change.

This guidance will come in different forms: intuition, inspiration, and sometimes even through synchronicities. Often we can experience intuition as a strong inner knowing that offers us guidance of some form. Inspiration can be experienced as a feeling of flow and excitement that comes through in moments when our thoughts and actions are aligned with love. Then there are moments of synchronicity, which are really cool—like when you’re thinking about your mother and she calls or when you keep hearing about a new book and the next day it falls off the shelf in the store.

In my book, May Cause Miracles, I emphasize three other key components to living a miraculous life: gratitude, forgiveness and love. The act of forgiveness is to the miracle worker as lettuce is to the raw foodie.

Forgiveness guides us to cleanse ourselves of the old, junky fear and shines light on the darkness of our worries, doubts and suspicions. Rather than continuing to play the role of victim, we can forgive and be set free. With each choice to forgive, we shift our perception from fear to love.

Forgiveness is like air: we need it to survive.

Then comes gratitude. An emphasis on gratitude is the only attitude for the miracle worker. Living a grateful life creates more abundance, acceptance and appreciation. In order to transform your fears back to love, you must embrace a way of being that puts gratitude first.

3.  Choose Love Everyday

Finally, there is love—the most crucial ingredient. A Course in Miracles teaches that the only thing missing in any situation is love, and where there is fear there is no love. Therefore, living with an open heart and embracing love as our true purpose is essential to living a miraculous life.

Gabrielle Bernstein has been labeled by the New York Times as the next-generation guru. A motivational speaker, life coach, and author, she is expanding the lexicon for the seekers of today and tomorrow.